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Top 5 reasons - why do you want to stay single

 

 

Singles can bring us a lot of fun, which is known to everyone. Being single gives us the opportunity to enjoy freedom, to know ourselves, to develop hobbies and to get more friends. We can do whatever we want, without worrying about other things that will affect ourselves. Many people enjoy the pleasure of being single, thinking that they don't need to date, and don't need other people to join their own life, which makes it easy for them to fall into the rabbit hole. After some investigation visits, we found some reasons why people want to stay single.

No.1 Not confident enough

Many people lack self-confidence. When we bring others into our lives, they will see the true self, and there will definitely be some shortcomings we want to hide. For those who are not confident enough, they will worry about whether they will leave themselves because of these shortcomings before dating, and their perfect image in front of others will be broken. This makes it difficult for them to take the first step. In intimate relationships, not only include sex, but also the true self, good, bad, and beautiful. We are all ordinary people, no one can be perfect. If you are afraid of facing a place that you are not so perfect, then you may lose more happiness.

No.2 Too rigid

We all hope to find the right person and not want to live with the wrong person. Some people will list their qualifications for their partner's requirements because they want to meet the right people, so that they can only date people who meet these requirements. This is too narrow. In fact, we don't know what kind of people we are suitable for. Some quantitative indicators are not good for the development of feelings. When you fall into this kind of data-based life, you may pass by someone who really suits you.

No.3 Unwilling to take risks

Dating is indeed a risky thing, especially when we have been hurt in the past, we will let ourselves be weak in the face of future feelings. Everything we do in life is risky, not just dating. But we must take this risk because we have emotional needs. If you want to find a breakthrough, then you should first feel the fear, then you know how to adapt and deal with it. It is not to evade problems that can be solved.

No.4 Contrast, always want to break through

Many people compare their current partners with their predecessors. In fact, this is not necessary, everyone has the characteristics of everyone. Some people always want to find a better incumbent than their predecessors, and often bring their predecessors to the present conversation. This shows that you have not come out yet. The new beginning means that everything is new, there is no comparison, you only need to pay attention to your current feelings. There is no need to grieve for the love that has been lost. You should be ready for the new candidate.

No.5 I don't know what I want.

Many people will have doubts after experiencing the feelings of failure. What kind of people do they need? What kind of one is it for? Then you should think about what you need to get from your partners, whether you are willing to accept and pay for each other? What kind of life do you want to be and what kind of partner you want to attract? Or what kind of person do you want to be? There is a goal that doesn't need to be over-extended, do what you want in your heart, and like to attract likes. When you come out, the right people will attract each other. When you meet the right person, it may be a moment.